We as women love to get the last word don’t we, especially when we are right! I know I do! The argument doesn’t end until I say so lol! The problem is we have become so offended by everything, so getting the last word turns into constant lashing out. Especially between us women! Reacting to every little thing disturbs our inner peace! The desire to prove we are right, to prove we are good, to prove that we are who we say we are; overrides everything that we say we have become, that we have worked hard to be.
Insecurities show when we have to react to everything. When we are secure in who we are, no one can tell us who we are, how we should act, or what we should believe in. When we are secure, we respect the opinions and values of others, even if we don’t agree with them. If others opinions get disrespectful block them on social media and in real life.
Let me just say if it’s people in your circle you have to constantly refrain from responding to, Id ask you to have real private conversations and re-evaluate your circle. We shouldn’t allow anyone that close to us that disturbs our energy.
We must choose to focus on being informative, being true, standing on who we are and what we believe without being bothered how the next woman does the same. This week I challenge you to choose peace. Choose growth. Quit lashing out, instead find a way to be informative in the things that mean the most to you. Quit being easily offended, instead respect the differences in opinions. Quit being walked over, instead have real conversations with the people close to you. Quit allowing the disturbance, instead block anyone who disrespects who you are!
At the end of the day, we fight enough battles daily without allowing “getting out of character” to be one of them. Be Real. Be You. Continue Growing. Don’t go backwards for anyone! THERE SHE GO!